anyhow, my ruling planet is mars. get this: "as mars was the god of war, this planet is is best placed when its sign and aspects allow it to easily release the energies of aggression, courage, passion, ambition, assertiveness, and sexuality. when the energies are blocked because of an affliction, by sign or aspect, anger is reduced to silence or sarcasm, sexual passion is frigidity and impotence, courage is reduced to passivity, and ambition is dissipated by halfhearted and spurious attempts at accomplishment. on a more aggressive level the energy is misdirected, the personality is argumentive, temperamental, rash, and pushy. personal activities are undertaken in convulsive fits and starts only to be ultimately abandoned. this planet is is considered malefic by nature, and when negatively affecting a personal point in the natal chart by transit, it has the force to be severely disruptive."
oh, i like this one too: "the only thing that hold you back from getting what you want, is spending too much time thinking about it". heh, heh.
oh, and i remembered that dwaine is a leo ("together we are the principle of passion personified"). of course, he would be the one that refuses to have sex with me!$#!@$#!@! :oP
i am amused:
No man performs a duty for mere duty's sake;
the act must content his spirit FIRST.
He must feel better for DOING the duty
than he would for shirking it.
Otherwise he will not do it.
he gets what he came for.